Written by a parent, not a doctor. Nothing here is medical advice.

Set up the ask

HavenHouse St. Louis

Standard Hospital Guest-House Lodging

What you get

A guest room or apartment with laundry, free breakfast, dinner, snacks and drinks, plus weekday day-room access and free scheduled medical shuttles when available. Ask whether requests are open.

Families cannot contact this program directly; it goes through your care team.

Who starts it
Your social worker
How it’s sent
Through your social worker
Your time
One conversation with your social worker
Last checked
Aug 27, 2026

Before you start, check you fit

  • Adults need background screening; bring photo identification and a credit card.
  • One room per patient. A referral does not promise a reservation; no financial aid is offered.
  • Adult guests must pass screening, and an adult age 21 or older must stay in the room.
  1. One thing to do: ask your social workerThey send it. You give them what they need.

    HavenHouse St. Louis takes requests from your social worker, not from families. Copy this message, or say it at the next visit.

    Hi [social worker’s name],
    
    Could you send a request to HavenHouse St. Louis for us? They offer a guest room or apartment with laundry, free breakfast, dinner, snacks and drinks, plus weekday day-room access and free scheduled medical shuttles when available, and it has to come from you. Their page is here: https://havenhousestl.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/HospitalReferralForm2025_Fillable.pdf
    
    Tell me what you need from me and I’ll bring it to our next visit. Thank you for everything you do for us.
    
    [your name] · [phone]
    Copying is the only thing this page does with your text. Nothing is saved.

    What to bring to the meeting

    • Your child’s diagnosis, the hospital’s name, and what you need help with.

    What happens next

    • An authorized St. Louis medical-facility representative completes every applicable section and confirms medical need.
    • The medical-facility representative emails the completed form to reservations@havenhousestl.org or faxes it to 314-434-6541.
    • HavenHouse verifies availability, completes screening for guests age 18 or older, and contacts the reservation contact to finalize the reservation after approval.
    • If confirmation is not received, the referring office calls 314-434-5858 for help with the referral process.

After your social worker sends it

The referring office may call 314-434-5858 for referral help; the family should wait for HavenHouse to contact the reservation contact after availability and screening review.

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